Sunday, August 26, 2012

So Many Affiliate Programs! Which One Do I Choose?

vào lúc 4:38 PM




Ask questions first before you join an affiliate program. Do a little research about the choices of program that you intend to join into. Get some answers because they will be the deciding point of what you will be achieving later on.





Will it cost you anything to join? Most affiliate programs being offered today are absolutely free of charge. So why settle for those that charge you some dollars before joining.





When do they issue the commission checks? Every program is different. Some issue their checks once a month, every quarter, etc. Select the one that is suited to your payment time choice. Many affiliate programs are setting a minimum earned commission amount that an affiliate must meet or exceed in order for their checks to be issued.





What is the hit per sale ratio? This is the average number of hits to a banner or text link it takes to generate a sale based on all affiliate statistics. This factor is extremely important because this will tell you how much traffic you must generate before you can earn a commission from the sale.





How are referrals from an affiliate’s site tracked and for how long do they remain in the system? You need to be confident on the program enough to track those people you refer from your site. This is the only way that you can credit for a sale. The period of time that those people stay in the system is also important. This is because some visitors do not buy initially but may want to return later to make the purchase. Know if you will still get credit for the sale if it is done some months from a certain day.





What are the kinds of affiliate stats available? Your choice of affiliate program should be capable of offering detailed stats. They should be available online anytime you decide to check them out. Constantly checking your individual stats is important to know how many impressions, hits and sales are already generated from your site. Impressions are the number of times the banner or text link was viewed by a visitor of your site. A hit is the one clicking on the banner or text links.





Does the affiliate program also pay for the hits and impressions besides the commissions on sales? It is important that impressions and hits are also paid, as this will add to the earnings you get from the sales commission. This is especially important if the program you are in offers low sales to be able to hit ratio.





Who is the online retailer? Find out whom you are doing business with to know if it is really a solid company. Know the products they are selling and the average amount they are achieving. The more you know about the retailer offering you the affiliate program, the easier it will be for you to know if that program is really for you and your site.





Is the affiliate a one tier or two tier program? A single tier program pays you only for the business you yourself have generated. A two tier program pays you for the business, plus it also pays you a commission on the on the sales generated by any affiliate you sponsor in your program. Some two-tier programs are even paying small fees on each new affiliate you sponsor. More like a recruitment fee.





Lastly, what is the amount of commission paid? 5% - 20% is the commission paid by most programs. .01% - .05% is the amount paid for each hit. If you find a program that also pays for impressions, the amount paid is not much at all. As you can see from the figures, you will now understand why the average sales amount and hit to sale ratio is important.





These are just some of the questions that needed answering first before you enter into an affiliate program. You should be familiar with the many important aspects that your chosen program should have before incorporating them into your website. Try to ask your affiliate program choices these questions. These can help you select the right program for you site from among the many available.


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The Pros and Cons of Video Blogging

vào lúc 1:03 PM




Video blogging has a lot of advantages over text-based



blogging, and it is little wonder that this new



technology is catching on all over the globe. Video



blogs very effectively grab the attention of web surfers,



and people are much more likely to become excited



about the dynamic content of a video blog than they are



likely to find a written posting very thrilling. The more



enthusiastic viewers are about a site, the quicker the



word of mouth spreads, and the more traffic the site will



get.





Of course, there are plenty of disadvantages to video



blogging as well. Hosting a v-blog requires quite a bit



of server space, which can make it difficult to get



started. It takes more time to process and upload a video



file than it does to dash off a quick bit of text, which



means that running and updating a video blog can be



quite a bit of work. In addition, web surfers sometimes



grow frustrated with the slow loading times of the files



on many video blogs. Whether you opt for a video blog



or not depends on what kind of subject matter you want



to cover, and how much time you can devote to video



blogging. Before you decide to pursue a video blog,



consider if there is an easier way for you to get your


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Blogging: Consolidation, Debt, and New Information

vào lúc 8:53 AM


Technology





If you are interested in blogging, consolidation, debt, and



other financial topics are sure to appear in many of the



blogs that you regularly read. Techniques to make and



manage money are some of the most popular topics for



bloggers to explore on the web, so it is little wonder that



so many bloggers turn their attention to dealing with



debt. Falling into debt is all too easy, and getting out of



debt can be very difficult for people who do not have a



lot of financial expertise. For people who have a knack



for dealing with finances, blogging about their insights



and knowledge can be a great way to literally and



figuratively share the wealth.





If you are considering getting into blogging,



consolidation, debt, savings, and investment topics can



prove to be very fruitful things to write about. Many



professional bloggers who make a living off of their



blogs spend their days writing about money. If you



know how to court advertisers and build a blog fan



base, you can make money just by talking about money.



If you are familiar with loan consolidation, negotiating



settlements with credit card companies, or any other



financial topics, consider using your knowledge to



create a successful blog. By sharing your expertise, you



may be able to help your readers get out of debt while



you reap sizable monetary rewards for your time and


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A Great Idea For a Blogging Web Site is No Longer

vào lúc 4:49 AM


Enough





Because there are so many blogs and web sites about



blogs on the internet, it can be tough to distinguish your



blogging web site from all of the others. Whether you



are starting up a new web site aimed at bloggers or



whether you are looking to make your existing blogging



site more distinctive, the key to building and



maintaining a site that will capture the interest and



attention of the blogging community is finding your



niche. If you can fill a unique need in a way that no



other web site does, you'll be able to build a lasting



readership among web surfers. Once you have



discovered a niche, you will still have a lot to do, but



finding your place in the blogosphere is the place to



begin.





Every great blogging web site starts with a great idea,



and you can't build a successful site that will last



without one. There are many great sites aimed at



today's bloggers, and competition for the attention of



this growing demographic is fierce. To make your



blogging web site stand out from the pack, you will



need to offer something that no other site is currently



offering, or you will need to do the same thing that an



already popular site does but in a more impressive or



valuable way.





One way to discover an ideal model for your blogging



web site is to look at the sites that have successfully



captured a blogging audience already to determine if



you can appropriate some of their strategies to help



realize your vision. Of course, you will also need to add



a unique flair to your project in order to stand apart



from your competition. Many people agree that the web



sites that do the best in today's market are the sites that



have the most personality. The fiercely individual



surfers who are bloggers are a demographic that



responds especially strongly to personality, so consider



how you can give your site a unique and attractive



feeling by lending your own voice and sensibility to



your site's design and content.





Once you have a great idea for your site, have



pinpointed a special niche that you are well equipped to



fill, and have infused the site with personality, the next



step is figuring out how to get the word out to bloggers.



In the long run, a great idea just isn't enough to propel



your blogging web site to success. You will need to



draft a smart and realistic marketing plan in order to



draw readers to your site. Once you hook a blogger,



your great content will keep them coming back, but it is



vital to get that first glance or your site won't have a


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Work with Marketers to Improve Your Blog

vào lúc 4:23 AM

You blog. You may blog successfully. You may have a readership that, in all probability, buys things related to the subjects you blog about.

These three facts will alone mean, whether you like it or not, you may have a red dot trained on your forehead. It’s only a matter of time before marketers invade your inbox like cliché-spouting terrorists with shiny shoes. If they aren’t already, that is.

Over the last few years, as marketers have realised that bloggers have audiences and SEO benefits that even outweigh those of some media outlets, unfortunately poor practise has seeped into what is now defined as “blogger engagement,” or “blogger relations.”

I’m going to tell you how these marketers can be of benefit to you and your blog, how to attract marketers if you’d like to, and then, how to work with them to ensure the relationship is mutually beneficial.

I’ve worked in PR for about five years now. I’ve blogged for longer, to varying degrees of success. Having maintained blogs related to video gaming, media, and marketing, and one site I think it’s best I don’t say much more about, I’d say I have a good deal of experience in this area.

A couple of years ago, I built a relatively popular fitness blog, which is where I first saw some of the most incredibly poor pitching I’ve ever seen. I’d be contacted with products and services that were of no relevance, and spoken to like some sort of second-rate journalist, as marketers attempted either to cajole or batter me into writing about their clients.

The worst thing was, I knew many of the agencies that were contacting me, and in some cases, I knew some of the PR or SEO “professionals” from Twitter or offline meet-ups. It was clear they hadn’t made the connection.

Aggressive emails chasing me for not responding soon enough, for declining review products or—in the rare instances pitches did hit the mark—trying to dictate to me what I should and shouldn’t write filled my inbox.

It wasn’t just that most of the products, services or clients weren’t relevant to fitness, it was that there was no desire to build any sort of relationship with me from the majority of marketers—despite the fact my readers could be their customers if and when they did have something that was right. As with many bloggers, I wrote because it was a passion; something I enjoyed doing.

Marketers will contact bloggers for as long as bloggers have an engaged audience. A niche audience is a receptive audience. You might not like it, and many, many marketers might be terrible at it, but it’s a fact that isn’t going to change. Therefore, just as journalists have developed ways to deal with pushy PRs, bloggers can either ignore marketers or learn how to work with them in a way that’s mutually beneficial.

And this is where I think I can help.

Marketers can help you make a success of your blog. Here are five things marketers can provide you with that can help to build your blog. I’ll also give pros and cons for each, based on my own experiences.

Marketers can offer competition prizes in a way that promotes their clients or business, but also gives you and your readers something different.

Competitions are great traffic draws, especially if the prizes or method particularly relate to your blog. I have run many competitions using prizes marketers have offered up for free in return for product publicity, and each did very well—some even drew thousands of additional unique visitors.

If you’re serious about blogging and building your audience, you’ll probably know of other bloggers in your area of interest or expertise. You’ll possibly keep an eye on their posts and you’ll see them doing things that work and things that don’t. One of the things that always worked for me and rival bloggers, in particular for the fitness blog, was competitions with prizes that interested our readerships.

Pros:

You don’t have to put your hand in your pocket.It’s a great way to reward and pique the interest of current and potential readers, respectively.A good prize can draw a lot of traffic, especially where sharing is a requisite for entering the competition.They can provide good, regular content if you’re sometimes stuck on what to write.

Cons:

You may attract the wrong sort of traffic, such as readers that only visit to enter competitions.Prizes that aren’t relevant to your desired audience can dilute your blog and put off current readers.

Receiving a product to review, or being asked to try a service or experience out because it relates to your blog audience is, or was for me, incredibly exciting.

My main tip here is: don’t allow marketers to dictate to you whether the review or write-up should be positive or not. Considering they likely contacted you, you should be giving your honest opinion and not writing something you think will ensure you receive similar offers in the future.

When I was running my fitness blog, I thoroughly enjoyed trying out the newest video games and fitness gadgets. Marketers would offer them for free, and in some cases, asking marketers using services such as those mentioned in the “How to find marketers” section below resulted in some very relevant prize offers.

In short, you will be offered the opportunity to review if the marketer thinks your readers are well suited to their client or business.

Pros:

Having a hands-on trial of a product, service, or experience is the only way to write knowledgeably about it. Your readers will appreciate this.You often get to keep the products, which, given you likely blog about something you’re passionate in, is very cool.

Cons:

Some marketers want the products back!You may be expected to write positively, though I’d recommend against doing so just because you feel pressured to.

Building a good relationship with marketers might mean invitations to events, shared information about businesses and individuals and importantly, good content for your blog that will keep readers coming back.

I’ve personally managed to build some great relationships with marketers who are relevant to my blogs, ensuring I’m amongst the first to hear about stories. This is important because being the first with news or information means it’s your blog that’s likely to be shared and linked back to most.

Pros:

Knowing information first is what sets popular blogs like TMZ and The Next Web apart. Your blog might not be anywhere near the size of these yet, but everybody starts somewhere. If readers can rely on you for scoops, they’ll come back and share your content time and again.You’ll build a base of contacts that’ll be useful if and when you need to verify or research posts.

Cons:

Speaking on behalf of PR people everywhere, we’re notoriously gossipy. And the problem with gossip is that it’s not always 100% accurate. Unverified information masquerading as bona fide fact may come back to haunt you.

Experts within your sector can add credibility to your posts and blog as a whole. Marketers can give you access to their clients or people within their organisation that you otherwise wouldn’t have a hope of reaching. They’ll do this either because they think the experts could be useful to you or, as mentioned, because you ask specifically for an introduction using one of the methods mentioned below.

In my experience, these experts are also likely to promote the posts they’re mentioned in. They often have good audiences in terms of social media, meaning your post could find its way into the streams of many potential readers.

Pros:

Quotes from experts can only strengthen your blog, adding credibility to posts.Access to other people in your areas of interest can help build a roster of people who are happy to guest post for you. This means you have a body of people generally willing to help with good content—if that’s something you’re happy to receive in return for them plugging their own businesses. These experts are likely to have their own audiences, too, which they’ll likely promote their guest blog—and therefore, your blog—to.

Cons:

Not all “experts” put forward really are experts. Some may be simply touted by the marketer in a bid to achieve a plug on your blog.

Given that many bloggers post in their own time about subjects they are interested in, the dream to make enough money blogging to do it full-time is an unsurprising one. Marketers can be the middlemen you need to make this happen.

Some bloggers don’t accept payment for posts; some only post for marketers when they’re being paid. It’s a personal choice, and one you’re likely to consider the more prominent your blog becomes.

There are a number of ways of monetisation in blogging, many of which Darren has already covered in his make money blogging section, such as advertising, affiliate marketing, and speaking fees. Some bloggers also choose to only post for brands if they’re paid to do so, whilst others will post dependent on relevance.

The key is to lay this out to marketers at the beginning of a relationship. Online payment services such as PayPal make accepting payment simple.

Pros:

The most obvious of all: you get paid!

Cons:

Accepting payment for links is a dangerous game that can have your blog fall off the face of Google quicker than you can say “black hat SEO.” I’d recommend you steer clear of any marketers, mainly SEO people in my experience, who ask that you give them a live “do follow” link in return for paymentYour blog suddenly becomes a business and you are responsible for the administration and legalities that come with that. I list this as a con because many people don’t consider it.

If you’re sold on the idea of working with marketers and they’re not yet contacting you, there are ways to make yourself more visible.

I’d always advise you to look at best-practise guidelines where possible, because naive requests for free products when your blog is just a day or two old with next to no audience are likely to be ignored. They could even hinder your chance of building relationships before you start.

Here are a few ways you can find marketers (or allow them to find you):

Use social media. In particular, Twitter is a great way to find and interact with marketing agencies and individuals.Peter Shankman’s HARO is a great way to make queries that will be seen by PR people.In the UK, Response Source’s request service gives you the chance to ask for everything from competition prizes to information for an article.Sign up to my very own service, bloggabase.com.Attend events related to your area of interest. I’m often at industry events where I get the chance to meet journalists and bloggers, trading contact details in a bid to provide them with information that’s relevant to them.Ask fellow bloggers for introductions. Chances are they’ll be only to happy to help.

Whether you’re being contacted now or hope to be speaking to marketers in the future, please do be aware that as with good, old-fashioned media relations, where there are good and bad PR people in the eyes of journalists, there are good and bad blog pitches. To help you make the best of it, here are a few things I’ve picked up by being on both sides of the fence.

Tell the truth: Lying about the number of unique visitors to your blog or the number of subscribers to a newsletter is not the way to build a mutually beneficial relationship. Looking at your Alexa rank, Google page rank, the number of Twitter followers, and the number of times your blog comes up in a Twitter search over the last week or so are some of the ways I’ll validate a blog’s popularity, especially if quoted figures seem inordinate.Be upfront: If you aren’t likely to post about something without being paid to do so, let the marketer know before speaking further. They may not mind, but they’ll need to know because inevitably, it’ll have to come out of their client’s budget.Be friendly: I’ve worked with many bloggers who have, at least at first, treated me with very little respect no matter how targeted my approach. If you appreciate that marketers can be of benefit to you too, in all the ways I mentioned above and more, you’ll hopefully appreciate that respect is a two-way street. The junior agency employee contacting you might one day soon be in charge of the marketing for a company you’d very much like to work with.Don’t be a walkover: Some marketers will, conversely, treat you with little respect. If a pitch is irrelevant, you can either ignore it or politely tell the marketer so. Some will try to ensure you write positively about their clients. Again, you don’t have to put up with that. The second they contact you or send you a product to review, I believe marketers relinquish the right to dictate what you can and can’t say. For instance, I know certain bloggers or journalists wouldn’t like some of my clients’ products or services, so I just don’t contact them with them.Ask questions: Ask the marketer if they have any other clients that are relevant to your blog. Ask them if there are any events coming up that might be of interest to your audience.

Have you used marketers to help build your blog and meet the needs of your readers? Tell us how it went in the comments.

Rich Leigh is a public relations professional, blogger and also co-founder of bloggabase.com, a service launched to help improve bloggers and marketers connect. Bloggers can sign up for free to receive targeted pitches, review products, guest blog offers and monetise their blogs. It’s an opted-in way of inviting marketers to make contact based on relevance.


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Why Every Employee Should Start a Blog

vào lúc 12:24 AM

This guest post is by Hassan Osman of PartTimeWebpreneur.com.

I’ve been running a blog for a year and a half now, all while working a demanding full-time job (at Cisco Systems), pursuing a graduate degree, conducting some research on the side, and doing what I enjoy the most: spending quality time with my family.

Although balancing those different areas of my life is no easy task, I can honestly say that blogging has been an extremely rewarding experience for me on so many levels—professionally, personally, and financially.

In fact, blogging has been so gratifying that I’m actually launching a second blog soon.

I truly believe that if you’re an employee—whether you’re just starting out after college, or you’re a 30+ year workforce veteran—you should undoubtedly start a blog. I’ll explain why in a second.

First, there’s one important thing that you should look into before starting a blog: carefully read through your employer’s social media policy regarding employee blogging. This is imperative, as you could get fired if you violate it. If your company does not have a published policy, you should still check with your HR department or boss about what’s considered acceptable to them.

Some companies, like Cisco, are quite open to having their employees run their own personal blogs (as long as the employees state that views are their own). Other companies place restrictions on what you can blog about, and a few other companies outright deny you from blogging.

So make sure you do your homework to avoid getting into trouble.

By running a blog in a specific field, you’ll solidify your expertise in that area and establish yourself as an authority figure, which can differentiate you from your peers.

In addition, you’ll be building a strong personal brand for yourself. Everyone, including prospective employers, already Googles your name anyway. A blog helps you take advantage of that by controlling your online presence and reputation.

You probably already know you can make a significant income from blogging (you’re reading this on problogger.net after all!), but making money from a blog takes a lot of time, dedication, and effort. So why not start early when you don’t really need the cash?

Moreover, in this shaky economy, you never know when you might need to fall back on a financial cushion for support. Pat Flynn started a blog as a tool for taking notes while he was an employee studying for an architecture exam. After he got laid off unexpectedly from his job in 2008, he had to rely on his blog for income, and made around $8,000 from it after a few months. Smart lad!

This is perhaps the most important benefit you’ll gain from blogging. Running a blog is a lot like running a small business. You’ll pick up skills related to technology, marketing, social media, analytics, and much more. You’ll also improve your writing, research, and public relations skills.

Those are all transferable skills that you can leverage in any position or company you work for. In The Start-Up of You co-authors Reid Hoffman and Ben Casnocha talk about always staying in “permanent beta” so that you adapt and evolve. So think of those additional skills as job security insurance.

The list of potential opportunities that you’ll have opened up for you from blogging is endless. Some examples include writing a book, getting hired for consulting gigs, or being asked to speak at conferences.

I’ve had all three happen to me—all because of my blog. You’ll also make a lot of new friends and build a crucial network of like-minded professionals all over the world.

This is understandable, as it can be quite hard to choose a blog topic. However, the good news is that there are a lot of helpful articles and books that will make it easier for you to make that decision.

A great ebook that’ll help you get started is ProBlogger’s Guide to your First Week of Blogging.

It’s true that blogging can be very time consuming, but who said you can’t blog at your own pace?

As an employee, you have an advantage over full-time bloggers because you don’t need to worry about publishing posts every few days. In fact, I have blogged an average of only once or twice a month, and still gained all the benefits I mentioned above.

Of course you do! If you’re reading this, you already have the skills needed to set up a blog in less than 60 seconds. Just fill out this signup form on WordPress and you’ll have a blog in no time (it’s also free).

You’re probably right; no one will initially read your blog except maybe your spouse and a couple of your friends. But guess what? Unless you’re already popular, everyone starts off that way. Tim Ferriss’s first post got one comment. He now gets over 1,000,000 monthly unique visitors to his blog (and a lot more comments). Stay persistent, create good content, get social, and your blog will eventually acquire more readers.

To sum it up, the benefits of starting a blog while you’re an employee definitely outweigh the costs. You’ll be perceived as an authority figure, make some money, and learn some great skills in the process. So stop making excuses and start one today!

Hassan Osman is a Senior Program Manager at Cisco Systems, a graduate student at Harvard, and a blogger at The Couch Manager. His latest blog, the Part-Time Webpreneur, is about how full-time employees can start and run a side business (views are his own).


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“I’m Fine, Thanks”

vào lúc 12:13 AM

I'm Fine - ThanksIn January, my good friend Adam Baker from Man vs Debt asked me if I was interested in helping him out with a new project he was working on.

In the online world, “project” could really mean anything – a new website, an info-product, a course, software, etc. – but this project was much different – and far different anything I’ve ever been a part of before.

It’s a full-length documentary called I’m Fine, Thanks - a project I not only agreed to participate in, but I fell so much in love with it that I decided to help partially fund the project too.

In short, the documentary is about the issue of complacency in everyday life.

When I asked Adam what the goal of the film was, he said, “We want I’m Fine, Thanks to give thousands of people inspiration to live their lives based on their own hopes and dreams – not someone elses vision or script for their life. We want to push people to take the first small action to reignite their passions.”

This resonated with me big-time, because personally I know that if I wasn’t laid off like I was back in 2008, I’d be living a life where I was happy with the way things were (remember, I never wanted to leave my job) – but I wouldn’t know what it would be like to be this happy.

Adam and his crew of 4 film makers took a 2 month, 10,000+ mile road trip across the country interviewing over 60 people who each share their unique stories and thoughts about this idea of complacency.

On March 15th, Adam and his crew – Grant Peelle (Director), John Cropper (Camera Op), Dustin Koester (Sound), and Bryan Olinger (Director of Photography) visited our home in San Diego and hung out with the Flynn family for the day.

They filmed daily life in our home and even joined my wife and I downtown for date night, since it was a Thursday.

Part of the day also included a very intimate interview, which brought out a ton of emotion as I told my story on camera.

Pat - documentary filming

Adam wrote a few blog posts during the trek and even included a snippet of his experience in San Diego with my family here, which was really kind of him.

Adam, his family and the entire crew are now living in Northern California to work on finishing the project in time for it’s world premiere at Chris Guillebeau’s World Domination Summit this July, and then hopefully at a number of premieres around the country after that.

I’m really proud to be a part of this, not only as someone who was interviewed but as someone who financially helped make this possible too.

Today, I’m Fine, Thanks starts it’s Kickstarter campaign, so I invite you to please watch the trailer below (which has some footage of my son and I!) and if the message resonates with you, then please consider backing the project. Even a pledge of $5.00 gets you a digital download of the full documentary (yes, the full thing!) once it’s finished.

(or you can watch the trailer on the Kickstarter Page here)

And here’s a Facebook button to help share the campaign and spread the word.

Thank you again for taking the time to watch, and I’d love to hear what you think!

Lastly, big props to Adam for his vision. It’s been amazing watch the project progress since the start of the idea in January, all the way through execution and the upcmoing premiere in July! Talk about taking an idea and taking action with it!

Cheers, and look out for a new podcast episode coming and the end of the week!

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Saturday, August 25, 2012

Unconfidence: The Essential Ingredient to Crazy Stupid Success

vào lúc 8:09 PM

This guest post is by Steve of Thecodeofextraordinarychange.com

Confidence is over-rated.

At least, it’s over-rated in the homogenized, misused, self-help industry clap-trap kinds of ways.

In today’s world it’s both easy and tempting to start putting a confident veneer over things, because it seems as though the world expects that.  In relationships, friendships, career, blogging and business, there’s an expectation that you have to know what you’re doing, otherwise you just don’t stack up.

So communicating the “I’m know where I’m at” position becomes something we busy ourselves with. We become focused on the portrayal of expertise or success in addition to building that same expertise and success, and sometimes that portrayal prohibits the very thing you’re looking to achieve.

So I think it’s time to stop the BS and to halt the veneer of confidence.  It’s time for unconfidence.

Here’s how it works.

I work two jobs because my coaching business doesn’t make enough money to support me. I don’t pretend that it does, because to do so requires that I see this fact as a negative and I don’t want to lie to my clients.  

I don’t pretend that I know exactly where my business is going, because I’m largely making it up as I go along. I don’t pretend to have all the answers, because that would make me an asshole.

Pretending to be something you’re not or to know something you don’t is part of the old world. Online, people can now smell that kind of pretence and it’s only a matter of time before the offline world starts behaving similarly (if it hasn’t happened already).

You have an incredible array of skills, experience, strengths and talents and an even more incredible capacity to learn, improve and grow.  Focus on that, not on pretending.

If what you’re doing in your life and business doesn’t mean a whole lot to you, or amount to a hill o’ beans, you’re just treading water. If there’s nothing on the line, there’s no need for you to push at the boundaries of your capabilities. If there’s nothing at stake, you don’t need to step up to the plate or raise your head above the parapet.

You can coast.

The things that matter to you matter for a reason.  Ignoring them disconnects meaning from your life and work, and the net result is that you don’t really care what happens.

It’s a place of limbo and increasing constraint, where you die a long, slow death wondering what might have been.  It’s a ghastly place to be (I learned this the hard way). Meaningful success can only ever be derived from engaging with the things that have meaning. That goes for life and business.

Unconfidence is about listening and engaging with the things that matter to you, and requires that you make a choice to grow to the point where you feel ready, willing, and even compelled to get involved.

There are a lot of people out there hustling.  Pushing, doing, moving.  Trying to make something happen so they can prove to themselves that they’re good enough or that they’re worthy of their peers, friends, mentors, clients, and partners.

I can’t imagine much worse than that.

You don’t have to prove you’re worthy or deserving to anyone—yourself most of all. You don’t have to fit in with the cool kids or gain approval from others. You don’t need to hide who you are to gain approval for who you think you ought to be.

Unconfidence is allowing yourself to show up as who you are, warts and all.  It’s knowing—and feeling—that with all your imperfections you’re just right. And it requires that you stop judging yourself for who you are and start being yourself because of who you are.

As Brene Brown put it in her book The Gifts of Imperfection, “Wholehearted living is about engaging in our lives from a place of worthiness. It’s about cultivating the courage, compassion, and connection to wake up in the morning and think, No matter what gets done and how much is left undone, I am enough.”

There’s a common misunderstanding that confident people don’t get scared. That they don’t feel fear. That they’re fearless.

More garbage.

That fear response is deeply coded into your brain—when you’re feeling fear your amygdala fires up, giving you strong signals that you’re about to die and that you need to fight, fly, or freeze. The fear is just there to remind you that things might not go to plan and you might lose out, which is sometimes enough to stop you, right?

But here’s the thing: you can be shaking in your boots in the face of a decision, and still be confident that you can make a choice and deal with whatever happens on the other side.

Unconfidence is the quality that allows you to feel fear without judgment.

Plans are great.  Go ahead and make them.  Just remember that if you try to have your plans cater for every eventuality, you’ll be making plans for the rest of your days.

You can exert some control over what you do and how you do it in an effort to get a particular outcome, but if you’re focused on outcome after outcome after outcome you’ll be driving yourself loopy trying to control every variable to increase the certainty of your results.

Truth is, the world is uncertain.  You can’t control everything.  There’s always something that can throw you sideways and knock your plans off track.  So what if you knew that you could make a decision and deal with whatever happens?  What if you detached your decision making from a specific outcome or result?

Do that and the focus becomes less about the outcome and more about engaging with your decisions and behaviour.  That’s unconfidence—being able to choose your behaviour with implicit trust in that behaviour, not in the outcome.  You always get to choose.  It’s liberating.

Crazy stupid success isn’t a one-time thing.  It’s not something you hit and then settle back into and ride ’til retirement.  It’s a process.

It’s a process that requires you to strip away the BS, show up as yourself, be vulnerable and start playing because it matters to you in ways that scare you.  I’ve called it unconfidence here in order to differentiate it from your normal assumptions and beliefs around what “confidence” is.  But it is confidence.  Simple, graceful, natural self-confidence.

You have it.  You using it?

Steve is a superstar confidence coach who helps you build an extraordinary life. He also makes a fantastic ragu, and while he can’t promise you a batch he’ll promise to help you put your dent in the universe, which is probably a better deal.  Get more of him on Twitter and Facebook.


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The Real, #1, Most Obvious Reason No One’s Reading Your Blog

vào lúc 7:51 PM

This guest post is by Jared Latigo.

I’ve come across possibly hundreds of articles from prominent sites around the web that tackle the 10, 15, or 101 reasons your blog isn’t getting the traffic it deserves. But the interesting thing is that none of the ones I’ve found mention the real reason, the core reason, as to why no one is reading your blog.

This isn’t a stretch, in fact, we all know it. It’s not even something that we’re oblivious to. In fact, it’s obvious but we tend to forget it often.

The simple reason is entitlement. Let me explain.

That’s great. I’m glad she thinks you’re awesome. I mean, my mom reads mine and she thinks I’m awesome. At least, I think so. But that’s a problem.

It would be perfectly okay with me if it were her plus, say, 400 other people every day. But that’s not the case. So how do we fix it?

It’s a mindset thing.

You are writing awesome, compelling, new-to-the-world content that will change the course of history, yet no one is reading it. Except your mom. And the reason is that we forget that we’re not entitled to anyone’s attention. Not any more.

We forget that everyone else thinks they are just as awesome as we think we are. It’s really a problem. We forget to ask permission to talk to them and then wonder why we’re losing followers on Twitter when we post 30 times a day about our recent blog post!

Seth Godin, who I’m a huge fan of, talks about permission marketing. He says that in order to market these days, we have to get people to want us to market to them. And we have to keep that promise forever.

“Permission marketing is the privilege (not the right) of delivering anticipated, personal and relevant messages to people who actually want to get them.”—Seth Godin

The interesting thing is that Dale Carnegie wrote about this in 1936. This is nothing new. The book is called How to Win Friends and Influence People. It’s amazing. But in it, he talks not about marketing a company, but about getting along with people. He references incredible people like Abraham Lincoln, who was known as “Honest Abe” for a reason: he was honest!

But the key takeaway from that book, for me anyway, was this.

“There is only on way under the high Heaven to get anybody to do anything. Did you every stop to think of that? Yes, just one way. And that is by making the other person want to do it. Remember, there is no other way.”—Dale Carnegie

The two takeaways from that quote are:

The other person has to want to do it.Remember.

And we forget.

I have no idea why, but we forget that no one owes us their time, or their money, or their attention. We have to make them want to give us each of those. That’s the only way anyone is going to buy your product or read your blog. You have to make them want to read it.

Seth Godin and Dale Carnegie are a good two generations apart, but they understand the same core tenet of getting people to do something. The same is true for our blogs.

Well, it’s not really simple in action, but it’s simple in terms of what to do. We need to remember a few things everyday, regardless of the day.

Not one single person on this planet owes us their attention, not even your mom.We must make the other person want to read us or share us with their friends.We must never take readership, friendships, or relationships for granted.We must fulfill our promises, forever.We must never feel entitled to anyone’s time or resources. They are finite.

It takes work. It takes lots and lots of work. I’m not going to define a step-by-step list here because I believe every person and every situation is different. I think it will take some trial and error and some serious creative thought.

But I will leave you with this.

The road to gaining more blog readership is long. I’ve just begun, and it’s slow and hard. But I believe that getting rid of entitlement thinking is the core way, the number one, real way, to get more traffic to your blog.

Sure, there are other things that go along with that, many are on those lists I’ve read plenty of. But, when we get rid of that mindset that people owe us their attention, we open up a door to endless possibilites. And behind it we will be more willing to share content, give free stuff away, ask for permission, and get creative in building a tribe around our platforms.

Will you commit to this mindset? Sign up in the comment area by saying a simple “I’m In!” Feel free to tell us any ideas you have to help others. Post articles you may have stashed away that are great insight into building a blog. And all with the core remembrance of “I’m not entitled to anyone’s attention!”

Jared Latigo is a designer, writer, speaker, and passion guy. As a bonus, an exclusive ebook “The Big Blog Push: How to Turn Your Struggling Blog Into an Empire” has been written for you. Grab yours at JaredLatigo.com/problogger! You can also follow him on Twitter and read his posts on his blog.


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Maternity Leave … for Bloggers?!

vào lúc 4:16 PM

This guest post is by Kat Griffin of Corporette.

How do full-time bloggers take maternity leave? How do you schedule posts and get help, when you’re not sure when you’re going to go into labor, and when you have no idea what to expect when the baby first comes?

This is my account of how I not only maintained my traffic but grew it, all while taking ten weeks of maternity leave.

By Summer 2011, I had two very happy things going on in my life: I was pregnant with my first child, and my fashion and career advice blog (Corporette) was doing so well that I had quit my job as a lawyer to focus on it.

But this created an unfortunate problem—how could I have the baby, be a good mother, and keep my blog at the level my readers expected? My number goals: maintain 15 posts a week, and keep as much of my hard-won traffic as possible (which at that point was about 57K uniques and almost 500K pageviews a month).

It would be nice, I thought, if my blogging income stayed where it was, but I prepared myself for a dip. I had read that a newborn’s crying peaked around weeks six to eight, so I picked ten weeks as the optimal time for myself to take off.

For some people, the answer would have been obvious—hire an assistant or an intern to take over content. But my site has always been a bit difficult in that regard—in fact, I think I owe a lot of my success to the fact that I actually had a conservative job for many years, so my workwear and career advice comes from a very realistic place. (I started my blog while working as a litigator for a Wall Street firm.) So your typical 22-year-old hire just would not do.

My answer? Some scheduled posts from me, but a lot of highly curated guest posts. To be clear: I also did not hire a baby nurse or nanny, although looking back I suppose that was an option also. I was very concerned that the mixture of sleepless nights and postpartum hormones would make me unfit to give career and fashion advice, even if someone else was looking after the baby.

I looked at my regular content and asked:

Where do I make the most money? For me, those are always accessory posts (shoes and bags), so I kept those posts to myself. I also decided to write and schedule one meatier post each week, to keep my voice present on the site.For the posts that could be scheduled, what kind of content was missing from my blog that the guest posters could bring?Which posts had to be timely, and couldn’t be scheduled far in advance? I dropped some of them (such as my news roundup); for others, I took great care in inviting guest posters. For example, my first post, every workday, recommends an item of clothing that is available for online purchase. They’re not long or hard posts, but I know from experience that clothes sell out, particularly if they’re on sale, so they do have to be timely. I gambled that a) I could ask guest posters to take a full week’s worth of posts, b) I could trust them to send them to me in one fell swoop, a week ahead of time, so I could get everything coded appropriately (including adding my own affiliate links) and c) that their choices would not sell out by the time the post went live.

I estimated I needed ten people to pick outfits for each week, and I needed about 25 people to write meatier posts. I drew up a “dream list” of guest bloggers, and individually emailed each person to say that I admired them and would love for them to guest post, suggesting a few topics for each blogger.

I wrote the email the way I advise my readers to write business emails: extremely clearly, using short, to-the-point paragraphs (including one titled, “What’s in it for you: exposure to my 57,000 unique readers”). The subject: “Invitation to guest blog on Corporette, deadline 7/25.” This was around early June, and my due date was August 10. Happily, almost everyone I reached out to accepted.

Honestly, it almost took as long to edit everyone’s pieces as it would have taken to write the posts myself. But I liked the diverse voices and topics that were coming to the blog.

At the beginning of every post, I wrote a short paragraph describing the topic and introducing the guest poster to my readers. In addition to being great for SEO, it helped lend a bit of my voice to every post, as well as to immediately make clear to my readers how each post was relevant to them.

I used a monthly calendar to keep a bird’s eye view of the process—for example, I didn’t want to schedule a “should you cover your gray hair” post right next to a “when is naturally curly hair appropriate for the office.”

But once I had things scheduled (using WordPress’s default scheduling feature), I sent a screenshot of the post, as well as the full HTML, to each writer for approval, and told them what day and time the post was scheduled to go live. I also thanked them, hopefully a lot. This was all done in early August—some people weren’t scheduled to go live until October!

I used Google Calendar to keep track of which post was scheduled for when. Each Saturday, I would find time to email the guest posters slated to go live that week, reminding them what day and time the posts were scheduled to go live, and letting them know that I had scheduled a Tweet to promote the post as well. (I used Tweetdeck. Facebook, at that time, did not have post-scheduling capabilities.)

I scheduled guest posts to start going live on August 15. Again, my due date was August 10—I had read that first babies are often late; I also figured that if I went into labor before that, my readers would be kind enough to deal with a few days of minimal content.

My son, as it turned out, had other plans, as August 10, then August 15, both came and went without a baby in sight. The thing they don’t tell you about the last week or two of pregnancy is that between the false alarms and the doctor’s visits, you’re pretty much at the hospital or doctor’s office every day, sometimes waiting for hours. My pregnancy discomfort and exhaustion was also at an all-time high.

I wound up being incredibly thankful that the guest posts started “early” on August 15, because there’s no way I could have kept up my regular blogging schedule by myself. Oh, and those meatier posts that I kept for myself to write? True to personality, I was often editing those right before I published them—I even wound up blogging from the post-partum ward in the hospital, hilariously, about work/life balance.

Somewhere between all of the guest posters, the Tweets, and the tightly-written first paragraphs, traffic increased. (It may have helped that I guest posted for Lucky Magazine in June 2011.)

I jumped from 57K uniques in June 2011 to 75K uniques by September 2011. Corporette currently has around 111K uniques, so I’ve maintained the increase.

I like to think my readers got to know a new group of bloggers, and I got to enjoy time with my newborn son without worrying (too much) about my other baby, my blog.

Have you taken a maternity or paternity leave while blogging? How did your plan differ from mine? Share it with us in the comments.

Kat Griffin founded Corporette, a fashion and lifestyle blog for women lawyers, bankers, MBAs, consultants, and otherwise overachieving chicks, in May 2008, while working as a litigator on Wall Street.


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Work with Marketers to Improve Your Blog

vào lúc 12:06 PM

You blog. You may blog successfully. You may have a readership that, in all probability, buys things related to the subjects you blog about.

These three facts will alone mean, whether you like it or not, you may have a red dot trained on your forehead. It’s only a matter of time before marketers invade your inbox like cliché-spouting terrorists with shiny shoes. If they aren’t already, that is.

Over the last few years, as marketers have realised that bloggers have audiences and SEO benefits that even outweigh those of some media outlets, unfortunately poor practise has seeped into what is now defined as “blogger engagement,” or “blogger relations.”

I’m going to tell you how these marketers can be of benefit to you and your blog, how to attract marketers if you’d like to, and then, how to work with them to ensure the relationship is mutually beneficial.

I’ve worked in PR for about five years now. I’ve blogged for longer, to varying degrees of success. Having maintained blogs related to video gaming, media, and marketing, and one site I think it’s best I don’t say much more about, I’d say I have a good deal of experience in this area.

A couple of years ago, I built a relatively popular fitness blog, which is where I first saw some of the most incredibly poor pitching I’ve ever seen. I’d be contacted with products and services that were of no relevance, and spoken to like some sort of second-rate journalist, as marketers attempted either to cajole or batter me into writing about their clients.

The worst thing was, I knew many of the agencies that were contacting me, and in some cases, I knew some of the PR or SEO “professionals” from Twitter or offline meet-ups. It was clear they hadn’t made the connection.

Aggressive emails chasing me for not responding soon enough, for declining review products or—in the rare instances pitches did hit the mark—trying to dictate to me what I should and shouldn’t write filled my inbox.

It wasn’t just that most of the products, services or clients weren’t relevant to fitness, it was that there was no desire to build any sort of relationship with me from the majority of marketers—despite the fact my readers could be their customers if and when they did have something that was right. As with many bloggers, I wrote because it was a passion; something I enjoyed doing.

Marketers will contact bloggers for as long as bloggers have an engaged audience. A niche audience is a receptive audience. You might not like it, and many, many marketers might be terrible at it, but it’s a fact that isn’t going to change. Therefore, just as journalists have developed ways to deal with pushy PRs, bloggers can either ignore marketers or learn how to work with them in a way that’s mutually beneficial.

And this is where I think I can help.

Marketers can help you make a success of your blog. Here are five things marketers can provide you with that can help to build your blog. I’ll also give pros and cons for each, based on my own experiences.

Marketers can offer competition prizes in a way that promotes their clients or business, but also gives you and your readers something different.

Competitions are great traffic draws, especially if the prizes or method particularly relate to your blog. I have run many competitions using prizes marketers have offered up for free in return for product publicity, and each did very well—some even drew thousands of additional unique visitors.

If you’re serious about blogging and building your audience, you’ll probably know of other bloggers in your area of interest or expertise. You’ll possibly keep an eye on their posts and you’ll see them doing things that work and things that don’t. One of the things that always worked for me and rival bloggers, in particular for the fitness blog, was competitions with prizes that interested our readerships.

Pros:

You don’t have to put your hand in your pocket.It’s a great way to reward and pique the interest of current and potential readers, respectively.A good prize can draw a lot of traffic, especially where sharing is a requisite for entering the competition.They can provide good, regular content if you’re sometimes stuck on what to write.

Cons:

You may attract the wrong sort of traffic, such as readers that only visit to enter competitions.Prizes that aren’t relevant to your desired audience can dilute your blog and put off current readers.

Receiving a product to review, or being asked to try a service or experience out because it relates to your blog audience is, or was for me, incredibly exciting.

My main tip here is: don’t allow marketers to dictate to you whether the review or write-up should be positive or not. Considering they likely contacted you, you should be giving your honest opinion and not writing something you think will ensure you receive similar offers in the future.

When I was running my fitness blog, I thoroughly enjoyed trying out the newest video games and fitness gadgets. Marketers would offer them for free, and in some cases, asking marketers using services such as those mentioned in the “How to find marketers” section below resulted in some very relevant prize offers.

In short, you will be offered the opportunity to review if the marketer thinks your readers are well suited to their client or business.

Pros:

Having a hands-on trial of a product, service, or experience is the only way to write knowledgeably about it. Your readers will appreciate this.You often get to keep the products, which, given you likely blog about something you’re passionate in, is very cool.

Cons:

Some marketers want the products back!You may be expected to write positively, though I’d recommend against doing so just because you feel pressured to.

Building a good relationship with marketers might mean invitations to events, shared information about businesses and individuals and importantly, good content for your blog that will keep readers coming back.

I’ve personally managed to build some great relationships with marketers who are relevant to my blogs, ensuring I’m amongst the first to hear about stories. This is important because being the first with news or information means it’s your blog that’s likely to be shared and linked back to most.

Pros:

Knowing information first is what sets popular blogs like TMZ and The Next Web apart. Your blog might not be anywhere near the size of these yet, but everybody starts somewhere. If readers can rely on you for scoops, they’ll come back and share your content time and again.You’ll build a base of contacts that’ll be useful if and when you need to verify or research posts.

Cons:

Speaking on behalf of PR people everywhere, we’re notoriously gossipy. And the problem with gossip is that it’s not always 100% accurate. Unverified information masquerading as bona fide fact may come back to haunt you.

Experts within your sector can add credibility to your posts and blog as a whole. Marketers can give you access to their clients or people within their organisation that you otherwise wouldn’t have a hope of reaching. They’ll do this either because they think the experts could be useful to you or, as mentioned, because you ask specifically for an introduction using one of the methods mentioned below.

In my experience, these experts are also likely to promote the posts they’re mentioned in. They often have good audiences in terms of social media, meaning your post could find its way into the streams of many potential readers.

Pros:

Quotes from experts can only strengthen your blog, adding credibility to posts.Access to other people in your areas of interest can help build a roster of people who are happy to guest post for you. This means you have a body of people generally willing to help with good content—if that’s something you’re happy to receive in return for them plugging their own businesses. These experts are likely to have their own audiences, too, which they’ll likely promote their guest blog—and therefore, your blog—to.

Cons:

Not all “experts” put forward really are experts. Some may be simply touted by the marketer in a bid to achieve a plug on your blog.

Given that many bloggers post in their own time about subjects they are interested in, the dream to make enough money blogging to do it full-time is an unsurprising one. Marketers can be the middlemen you need to make this happen.

Some bloggers don’t accept payment for posts; some only post for marketers when they’re being paid. It’s a personal choice, and one you’re likely to consider the more prominent your blog becomes.

There are a number of ways of monetisation in blogging, many of which Darren has already covered in his make money blogging section, such as advertising, affiliate marketing, and speaking fees. Some bloggers also choose to only post for brands if they’re paid to do so, whilst others will post dependent on relevance.

The key is to lay this out to marketers at the beginning of a relationship. Online payment services such as PayPal make accepting payment simple.

Pros:

The most obvious of all: you get paid!

Cons:

Accepting payment for links is a dangerous game that can have your blog fall off the face of Google quicker than you can say “black hat SEO.” I’d recommend you steer clear of any marketers, mainly SEO people in my experience, who ask that you give them a live “do follow” link in return for paymentYour blog suddenly becomes a business and you are responsible for the administration and legalities that come with that. I list this as a con because many people don’t consider it.

If you’re sold on the idea of working with marketers and they’re not yet contacting you, there are ways to make yourself more visible.

I’d always advise you to look at best-practise guidelines where possible, because naive requests for free products when your blog is just a day or two old with next to no audience are likely to be ignored. They could even hinder your chance of building relationships before you start.

Here are a few ways you can find marketers (or allow them to find you):

Use social media. In particular, Twitter is a great way to find and interact with marketing agencies and individuals.Peter Shankman’s HARO is a great way to make queries that will be seen by PR people.In the UK, Response Source’s request service gives you the chance to ask for everything from competition prizes to information for an article.Sign up to my very own service, bloggabase.com.Attend events related to your area of interest. I’m often at industry events where I get the chance to meet journalists and bloggers, trading contact details in a bid to provide them with information that’s relevant to them.Ask fellow bloggers for introductions. Chances are they’ll be only to happy to help.

Whether you’re being contacted now or hope to be speaking to marketers in the future, please do be aware that as with good, old-fashioned media relations, where there are good and bad PR people in the eyes of journalists, there are good and bad blog pitches. To help you make the best of it, here are a few things I’ve picked up by being on both sides of the fence.

Tell the truth: Lying about the number of unique visitors to your blog or the number of subscribers to a newsletter is not the way to build a mutually beneficial relationship. Looking at your Alexa rank, Google page rank, the number of Twitter followers, and the number of times your blog comes up in a Twitter search over the last week or so are some of the ways I’ll validate a blog’s popularity, especially if quoted figures seem inordinate.Be upfront: If you aren’t likely to post about something without being paid to do so, let the marketer know before speaking further. They may not mind, but they’ll need to know because inevitably, it’ll have to come out of their client’s budget.Be friendly: I’ve worked with many bloggers who have, at least at first, treated me with very little respect no matter how targeted my approach. If you appreciate that marketers can be of benefit to you too, in all the ways I mentioned above and more, you’ll hopefully appreciate that respect is a two-way street. The junior agency employee contacting you might one day soon be in charge of the marketing for a company you’d very much like to work with.Don’t be a walkover: Some marketers will, conversely, treat you with little respect. If a pitch is irrelevant, you can either ignore it or politely tell the marketer so. Some will try to ensure you write positively about their clients. Again, you don’t have to put up with that. The second they contact you or send you a product to review, I believe marketers relinquish the right to dictate what you can and can’t say. For instance, I know certain bloggers or journalists wouldn’t like some of my clients’ products or services, so I just don’t contact them with them.Ask questions: Ask the marketer if they have any other clients that are relevant to your blog. Ask them if there are any events coming up that might be of interest to your audience.

Have you used marketers to help build your blog and meet the needs of your readers? Tell us how it went in the comments.

Rich Leigh is a public relations professional, blogger and also co-founder of bloggabase.com, a service launched to help improve bloggers and marketers connect. Bloggers can sign up for free to receive targeted pitches, review products, guest blog offers and monetise their blogs. It’s an opted-in way of inviting marketers to make contact based on relevance.


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